extramarital affairs,..:(

Extramarital affairs are relationships outside of marriage where an illicit romantic or sexual relationship or a romantic friendship or passionate attachment occurs.
I have seen so many extra-marital affairs. Wondering,what would be the cause? Even couples who seems happy in marital life has extra marital affairs. Why?
i've reading a li'll regarding it...
there are many reasons for a woman/man to get involved with some1 else..

many men when interviewed told that they had fun with their wives in the starting days of their marriage..but in later stages it was more of a routine than fun..the said that their wives had imagined that their bed time activities was a duty that had to be done so as to prove to be responsible and good housewives,,due to this lack of interest and monotonous ideology man turned away and started looking for fun outside...they said that they could try all the things with their other partners which they were afraid to do with their wives as she considered it to be nothing but dirty talk

on the other hand women indulge into such activities because of various reasons like the abusive nature of the husband..or because they feel left out and awkward when the busy husband (mostly businessman) doesn't have time for her..they had stated that they stepped out of the house when all their shopping time ..chatting with other housewives wasn't sufficient when the husband was mostly out for business meeting or office tours

i have tried to bring out the main reason because of which i've seen many happy marriages have been lead to divorce..or the marriage has been saved just for the responsibility sake..

dear married people..know that..a car without a gasoline is just of no importance.you can always sit in it..but it won't take you anywhere..

marriage is a sacred relation..it will work only if there is mutual understand .feeling..love and care..

so if u r married..n are involved into any such thing...plz take a step forward n save ur marriage..discuss your feelings and insecurities with your partner..coz its only them who would understand and be with you in the long run...

best wishes